Friday, June 24, 2011

A wedding, a helmet and a working mama ...

Lukers meets Ashton

A family photo! Grandma Marsha picked out the babies' wedding outfits.  Cute, huh? :)

The girls!  Minus Allie and Kate who were busy helping out!

Congratulations Lara!


It's been a crazy month!  Last weekend we packed up the babes and headed north of Spokane for the wedding of a dear friend and college roommate.  Dan and Lara's wedding was a blast!  I was blessed to get to live with some pretty wonderful girls during college and it was so fun to be together for a reunion and to have everyone meet Luke and Amelia.  The babies honestly did really well (they slept through the whole wedding ... I was afraid they'd start screaming, but they behaved :) ) and they both love to be around people so they had a great time!  The trip itself was hard on Scott and I.  It's just an incredible amount of work to travel with two babies under 6 months (or over 6 months for that matter!) and they got really off schedule after sleeping for 8 hrs in the car each way.  So that meant not nearly enough sleep for us (I don't function so well on 3 hrs/night!)  The sleep thing has been, by far, been the hardest part about raising twins, but I'll save that for another post!  I'm really thankful we were able to celebrate Dan and Lara's new marriage and it was well worth the sleep deprivation :)
The helmet ... At Luke's two month check-up the pediatrician noticed the left side of his head was getting a bit flat.  we spent the next 3 months trying to get him to lay on the right side of his head.  We re-positioned him constantly and made sure that toys and interesting things/people were on his right.  But his head kept getting more lopsided and his ears started to become uneven.  So, it was time for the helmet!  He really doesn't seem to mind it too much which I'm thankful for.  The only things that I don't like are that it's harder to snuggle with him.  I didn't realize how much I kissed his little head until there was a cold piece of plastic in the way!  And also it's getting hot out (some days anyway) so he gets overheated easily and super sweaty ... poor love!  Hopefully he'll only need it for three months.  And then when he's a teenager he can't blame us for his uneven head :)
This week I started work.  I have mixed emotions about it but overall I'm thankful for my job.  I really like what I'm doing right now.  I'm working 1 or 2 days/week as a discharge nurse which means that I help educate families to take care of their kiddo at home.  Teaching them how to care for IV lines, feeding tubes, new medications, etc.  I help the floor nurses get that patients out the door on the day of discharge (doing paperwork, etc.) and I call families after they go home to check on them and answer questions.  It's a good fit for me because it includes all of my favorite parts about being a nurse.  It was hard to leave the babies but they're in the best possible hands (Scott and my mom!) and honestly it felt like a bit of a break to be doing something else.  I actually got to sit down for 20 minutes and eat lunch!  That rarely happens here unless they both nap at the same time which is definitely a rare occasion.  The hardest part right now about working is just the logistics of working out scheduling.  We decided not to do daycare and thankfully that's an option for us because Scott works 3-4 shifts/week which means that I can work on days he's home and my mom can fill in too (thanks mom!) so that Scott and I can have at least two days a week off together.   A good friend of ours works as a nanny so she'll be with the babes a bit as well (thanks Ally!).  We'll see how it goes!
And one more picture ...

Yes, Dad picked out the helmet, can you tell?!


Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Sweet dreams

Evenings have become my favorite time of the day.  It's consistently the time that Scott and I get to parent together which makes things much easier and makes for a sweet family time.  Scott does the baths and then we feed them together.  We've been loving the CD of lullabies that Plumb recorded (thanks Elizabeth for the suggestion!) and play it every evening during the bedtime routine.  Just beautiful.  I love singing to the babies and snuggling them to sleep.  No matter how chaotic the day gets (and it often does!), I want their bedtime routine to be a peaceful time, at least until they hit the terrible twos :)  Here are the lyrics to "My Child" ... one of my favorite songs on the CD ...  It brings tears to my eyes.


Peacefully you are sleeping
Silently you dream
And I cannot help but feeling blessed
While watching you

Your eyes
My eyes
Your smile
My smile
Your love
My gain
Your hurt
My pain
Your laugh
My joy
Every time, it's mine
You are my child

I will always protect you
Oh and I will even let you go
I'll spend the sweetest time holding you
And will let you grow

Your eyes
My eyes
Your smile
My smile
Your love
My gain
Your hurt
My pain
Your laugh
My joy
Every time, it's mine
You are my child

Don't ever be afraid
Don't ever be afraid
Cause I am here
And if you start to fear
Just close your eyes
And hear me say

Your love
My gain
Your hurt
My pain
Your laugh
My joy
Every time, it's mine
You are my child

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Road trip #1

Amelia and Caroline

Three peas in a pod!

Luke looks absolutely huge!

Cousin Kristy

Mama and Amelia

Uncle Joe with Luke

We all survived our first road trip!  ...  And had a lot of fun.  The babes did amazingly well.  The trip over, which normally takes 6.5 hours, took us 10.  Luke loves to eat :)  We had to stop three times to feed him.  It was so fun to meet Caroline and have the babies all together.  Well, it was fun for the grown-ups, the babes didn't notice one another all that much.  It's so convenient for us that Scott's Grandma, aunt, uncle and cousins all live within 5 minutes of my sister so we got in some good visits.  Getting pictures of the all the babies together was nearly impossible (someone was always either eating or sleeping) but we got a few!  The ride home went really well and only took us 8 hrs ... Thanks Luke and Amelia for being such cooperative travelers!  Now gearing up for road trip #2 ...